Know Emotional attachment complete A to Z from a story

If you are also upset because of your broken heart so you must understand this story in this story you will find answers to five questions.

What is emotional attachment?
What causes emotional attachment?
Why is it so sad to be separated from someone?
How to end emotional attachment?
What is Love?

This story is about a boy who loved a girl very much. He thought that his girlfriend would never betray him but the girl's family members ask her to marry somewhere else and that girl agrees to her family. Due to which the boy breaks down completely, he starts feeling bad about his life, he gets into all those bad habits which only harm his body. The parents of that boy are very sad to see this condition of their son they do not understand what to do.

The boy was getting weaker day by day, and various diseases started arising in his body. If the mind is sick, the body does not take time to get sick. That boy's parents take him to the big doctors but to no avail, then someone tells them your son have a disease of the mind not a disease of the body so don't take him to a doctor take him to a sage, that boy's parents ask that person but we don't know any sage (Buddha) where should we take him.

That person says I know a Mahatma (Mahatma means a Buddha) and then he tells them his address. 

And then all three of them reach the hut of those Mahatma, those Mahatma see them and ask them what is the reason for coming here. The boy's parents say that Mahatma, our son is in sorrow his past is not allowing him to live in the present, we have come to you with great hope, do something the Mahatma ask that boy, son still you are not able to forget her then that boy is shocked to listen to the Mahatmas and asks them yes but how did you know Mahatma answers by looking your face you are in love the boy says yes you are right, i love that girl a lot. Those mahatma ask that boy did you really love her, that boy says yes then the Mahatma asks that boy, can you tell me what is the meaning of love? that boy says true love means giving pleasure to your lover, the Mahatmas say no, what you are calling love is not love but to be attached on an emotional level Because love is not meant to give happiness to the lover it means not to see her in pain and you are in pain right now.

And that girl doesn't care for you, it means that girl doesn't love you, and you're having trouble with this it means you also don't love her love is done to you by your parents who are wandering here and there seeing you in pain Then the boy asks why this emotional attachment happens.

The Mahatma answers there is a void in every human being, and they want to fill that void. Some want to fill with a lover or girlfriend, some want to fill with money, some with things and some with attention, the boy asks again then why do we feel so sad when we are separated? The Mahatma answers because the thing with which we fill ourselves, we start considering it as our part, if someone separates any part of your body from you then you are sure to be in pain.

The boy asks is there any way we can break this emotional bond?  Mahatma says, for this I want to show you something and then Mahatma brings two utensils. And fills water in it, and says to that boy mix the soil in the first vessels and stone in the second vessels that boy does the same Mahatma says now separate them, separate the soil, separate the water, separate the stones, separate the water.

The boy says forgive me but stones can be separated from water but soil cannot be separated, Mahatma says to that boy, this is the reason for your sorrow you have believed that this soil cannot separate while this is wrong, if we have patient, we will be able to see the separation of soil and water from the water that boy says i didn't understand anything. 

Mahatma answers, just as this soil has become one with this water at this time, in the same way your feelings (emotions) also with that girl has become one. You think that your feelings towards that girl will never change but it is not that, after a time the soil will separate and the water will separate. But you will have to bear the pain until they separate, the boy asks, can you tell me how long it will take.

and time will change you one day, change is certain, it is in your hands whether you want to change yourself or if you change yourself then there will be some pain but if time changes then a lot of precious time can be wasted.

The Mahatma says, the day you accept the truth, your pain will end, the truth is that either you yourself change for those who love you or keep crying for those who don't care about you. If you see this truth what you call love is only a emotional attachment which ends on its own after some time. then you will find that you are free this very moment that boy.

asks but what should I do now because there is pain inside me, I do not want to cry but I am crying mahatma says to that boy If you want to cry then cry, if you feel like screaming, then scream, whatever energy you have buried inside you express. 

As you go on taking away what you have buried inside, you will go on becoming quieter. Now I understand that there was not only that girl in my life and many more but I have not been able to see.

 

This story is over but now your story has started. Are you ready?