What are common mistakes people make in life(Learn from Buddha)

Most of the people do this Common mistake due to which they are not able to eliminate all the problems of their life. And they keep their life entangled in small problems.

A small story to understand this

Once a person plant a tree near his house. He takes care of it, slowly the plant grows, then it becomes a tree, now it starts bearing fruits. The person pluck a fruit from that tree and feeds it to a cow, as soon as the cow eats that fruit, that cow dies immediately after eating the fruit. The person is very upset by the death of the cow, but that person does not understand that the death of the cow is due to that fruit. He thinks that maybe the cow has some problem due to which she died, The very next day a child picks up a fruit that has fallen under that tree and eats it, as soon as that child eats that fruit, that child also dies immediately. Seeing this, this time, that person understand that there is a flaw in the fruit itself, Whoever eats this fruit is going to die immediately. 

So that person plucks all the fruits of that tree and throws it away. But after some time that tree starts bearing fruit again. He thinks that this time I am going to cut all the branches of this tree and he cut the branches of the tree.

But after some time the branch of that tree starts growing again. And after some time it also starts bearing fruit. So that person becomes very upset. He tells his problem to every person he meets, once a person tells him if you want a solution to your problem, then you should meet Gautam Buddha. That person goes to Gautam Buddha and tells about his problems. Gautam Buddha says that the solution to your problem is a very small one. Buddha says You plucked the fruit and threw it, you also cut the branches but you forgot to cut the roots.

That person says I did not forget to cut the roots Because I had planted that tree with great love and I do not want to take it away from me, so I did not cut its roots.

Buddha says to that person that your only problem is that you know that if you cut the roots then all your problems will end. But you are not able to bring enough courage inside you to cut the roots. Sometimes a situation like this comes in life when we have to take such decisions which we do not feel good but those decisions are necessary for us to take.

And if we can take those decisions at such a time, then our life can be better than before.

All of you who are reading this now, I just want to tell you that whatever is happening with you in your life or whatever problem you are going through. There is also a root of all those problems, I or no one else can tell you how you will cut the roots of the problems that you have created. But I can definitely tell you one thing that it is possible to cut those roots, thousands of people have already cut those roots.

Now it is your decision that which way you want to go, you want to cut the roots of your problems and throw them away or you want to struggle with your problems.

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